Big Liars - Book Review


Big Liars

Christian L. Hart and Drew A. Curtis

3.5 stars until I read the full book

Pub date Aug 22, 2023

 

In the short (17 pg) excerpt I was provided from #NetGalley, a reader can identify the big liars in their life. It could be someone who raised you, a partner or someone who supposedly leads you at work. 

It seems according to the data shared that most people lie daily. That in itself is a bit scary to me. I've always felt that there is a straightforward way to tell the truth, without bending it. As in, No, is a complete sentence; I'm not available that day; that's not the way I see it; and then make a decision to stay away from the people who you don't trust. Simple.

But of course, I am not a con, a criminal or a rogue.

This chapter (I was expecting a 300 pg book) offered many examples of how and why people lie. It is a fascinating look at what makes people tick, at a quick glimpse.

I would appreciate the chance to read the entire book, especially if given in paper copy, because I feel I would be covering it in stickie notes! Once we see consistency in someone's actions, life is so much easier.

For anyone who takes to lying easily, or especially those of us who have been the recipient of the behaviour of big liars, a deeper study of the psychology of this personality is worth a deeper look.

I am interested to know if lying started early in these people’s childhood, if they bore any consequence for their ‘stories’ and if they at some point can reconcile and stop this type of choice in their interactions.

I am just finishing Rogues, Patrick Radden Keefe, a good 'companion' book to this one. Let's get all the lying done for now.

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